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caitriona_3 ([personal profile] caitriona_3) wrote2012-12-04 03:00 pm

Sometimes....

Would someone please explain why I'm being defensive when I try and explain why I don't know where a formula came from and why I feel justified in being unhappy with a vendor when they've been accepting the formula for 6 years without comment?

I like my boss, I do, but when I try and explain things, I get told to calm down, he's not blaming me, and I don't need to be defensive. He interrupts to tell me this.

Am I being defensive? Maybe, but I do feel I should be allowed to finish my comment before he decides I'm just being defensive. I think I've got a right to be unhappy when they haven't said a damn word about the formula for SIX years and suddenly today it's a problem???

I can't even vent because then I'm being defensive.